How did you bring it up?
Often times this fantasy lives in the mind of the husband for a while before he works up the balls or figures out the right way to bring it up lol
Would like to hear how you brought this up to your wife/gf and how she responded to it...
I first heard about hotwifing on the radio. A lady had called in to tell her story and the host was mind blown. I was too. I couldn't imagine being ok with such an arrangement but I decided to look further into it out of curiosity. I confirmed it didn't interest me but swinging did. I found a lot of good info on the old HWL and swingers board which led to articles I read and then shared my findings with my wife. At first she was disturbed by the thought that someone who loved their SO would be willing to share but eventually it caught her interest and we started role playing scenarios during sex... It didn't happen over night but we eventually went to our first swinger party and had a blast. After a few successful swinging experiences I found it easier to coordinate with a single person than a couple and I came around to the idea of single guys. We delved into a liteish version of hotwifing and it has been great too. We aren't as active as we'd like to be cause of schedules and kids… Read more
As a young man I wanted FMF’s and would suggest them to my girlfriends. One girl said what about MFM trying to get me to reject the idea. But I didn’t and she was into it. Then with all girlfriends after they rejected the FMF idea I would say what about MFM? All were very much more responsive to that idea. I of course did the same to the gf who would become my wife and she was also way more responsive to the idea of being shared over sharing. She also liked to be called a slut and would request that during play. So with those things combined we had some pretty hot dirty talk going on in the bedroom. Then after many years we thought we should actually try it or probably stop talking about it. Started by watching her give a guy a bj we both liked it and have been doing some form of hotwifing for over five years now. But for us the key is the next day we are completely back to normal life. Like it never happened. No big deal, just fun
Neither of us brought it up. I was dancing at a gay club and fingered to orgasm by a hot lesbian with probably 200 or so people watching and cheering her on. I was powerless to stop her. My husband at the bar to get another round, turning to see it going down. We still talk about that event, which took us into swinging and eventually to our current status...
@suzyneedssex "Neither of us brought it up. I was dancing at a gay club and fingered to orgasm by a hot lesbian with probably 200 or so people watching and cheering her on. I was powerless to stop her. My husband at the bar to get another round, turning to see it going down. We still talk about that event, which took us into swinging and eventually to our current status..."
That is actually pretty hot