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hi, we are a married couple that's been swinging for about 10 years now. we have had our share of threesomes and foursomes, but to me watching her with another man is hotter than anything else!!! we bring it up in the bedroom, and fantasize about it. she just don't think she can do it without feeling bad? any suggestions from you guys would be very appreciated, I know you guys where once new to this, and im curious to hear how you guys talked through it?
thanks so much!
Excerpt from my book: "Cuckold Letters: Evolution of a Cuckoldress"
My little cocky
Here's the deal with Tom. I like him. I don't mean that it means anything, because it doesn't. I just mean that I take my massages very seriously because they are much needed. When I get a massage from a friend, it may be free, but it's easily ineturrupted by conversation, or sex, or whatever. I have no problem keeping everything well separated, but when I actually liked him, I was hesitant to get too comfortable, for fear that you would have concern. So it's important that you know that my interest in him in purely sexual....along with the talented hands. Massages, conversation, and a bit of adult fun, teasing, and probably some hot sex is what my goal with Tom is. Then to come home and tell you every detail....and show you how much fun we had.
I sent him a text message, asking him what day we can get together. I suggested Thursday night. He said that he doesn't get home until 8pm that night. So I replied to say that any day except Wed & Sat & as long as it's after Monday.
I won't try to dictate too much where it goes, but he made it clear that he is not going to make a move on me unless he's invited, so I will be very much in charge of how much will happen. Here's my general plan; to pay for my massage like normal, because he will still be professional about it. But once we go into overtime (he's given me extra time every time, even at the store), anything goes.
...When you wake together in the morning does ask you if you can still taste her lovers sperm..... which you were forced to clean up?
Does she make you eat and lick her for 4 nights before her next fuck/date while denying you an orgasm, leaving you with blue balls from Hell? Leaking, dripping, aching?
Does she jump out of the shower right after the gym and make you lick her asshole while jabbing backwards to your crotch with her foot to encourage you?
Does she leave a note on the grocery list ordering you to get a box of condoms......and you haven't been inside her for half a year and probably won't be for the next half?
While shopping or at a club or the gym does she point out guys she'd like to fuck.....right in front of your eyes? And then flirt with them?
Sex, good sex, kinky sex, hot steamy borderline violent sex is like 90% mental and 10% physical.
The tease, the taunt, the building of sexual tension, the blue balls, the denial, the facesitting for her, and no release for him while building towards a Friday night hot and sticky (for him, salty too, lol) fuck/date is what, in my own humble opinion cuckoldry is about.
There needs to be some sort of touching, kissing, licking, fucking, intimate knowledge of each other, of each others parts, plus some "domestic violence" for the cuckold, some spanking and caning and ball busting and verbal humiliation and plenty of "mouth abuse".....consuming of her lovers superior sperm and washed down with pussy juice.
Cuckolding?
I love it. :)
My Website: http://www.fetishfurniturefactory.com
E-books of all my titles from Amazon:
http://www.amazon.com/Vanessa-Chaland/e/B008B9W8KC
http://www.fetishfurniturefactory.com
Links for my paperback books via CreateSpace (owned by Amazon).
Dominant Women: Where and How to Meet the FemDom of your Dreams https://www.createspace.com/4129264
Queening and Facesitting Chair Designs of FetishFurnitureFactory.com https://www.createspace.com/3763698
FemDom Training of Submissive Males
https://www.createspace.com/3729534
Squirter's Paradise: Female Ejaculation! Wet musings on owning your body's sensual gushing gifts!
https://www.createspace.com/3707392
Cuckold Letters: Evolution of a Cuckoldress
https://www.createspace.com/3592288
Cuckold Journal: Wet Options: Cuckold Letters II The Married Years https://www.createspace.com/3970589
Its important to keep everyone in your life healthy. More so if its a submissive cuckold male who's main job in life is to prepare you for dates with superior men, and spend a good deal of time licking your ass and eating your pussy. On a serious note, I try to take very good care of my husband. I love him with all my heart and want him around for many decades to come. :)
So my husband has not been feeling so great lately. Just random odd little problems, lethargic, not quite up to his usual self. I had to drag him off to the doctor, like many typical men he hates going and its a battle (which I always win) getting him there.
The doctor could not really find anything wrong and suggested he go to an allergist for testing. Another brief battle (which I always win as I am bossy and in charge of everything, lol) and here is the deal. He has a variety of allergies. Not unlike his father did (who passed away last year) so its a genetic thing.
My point is if anyone is not feeling up to par (what the fuck does that mean anyway, I mean I know its a stupid golf term or something) they should consider allergy testing. Here is the list of things he is allergic to. He had to have blood draws as a medicine he takes has an anti-histamine in it (mind boggling to me) so the skin tests were not an option. We went for 4 separate blood draws as they take like 12 to 15 vials each time so could not do all at once. Made him lightheaded....the pansy, lol. It was odd as when we would leave the testing facility we would walk arm-in-arm and all kinds of little old ladies would notice us and smile thinking he was being chivalrous, when of course the reality is that my little 5' 5" 125 self was supporting his big old 6 foot plus 240 pound nearly fainting ass. :)
...I found this interesting and in theory am all for it....provided it's safe with no negative side effects. However, I don't really buy this as the whole reason for some women and it reminds me of another post I did and which the delightful and brilliant, plus gorgeous Wicked Maggie pointed out which I will repost in part:
This means, on average, a household requires about 51 hours a week to operate. Now take a typical week of a dual income home. You have 168 hrs a week.. you sleep approximately 49 hrs a week, work is approximately 45-50 hrs a week, commuting another 5hrs a week, eating an additional 10.5 (assuming cooking is added to the chores total). So out of a total of 168hrs... we are each left slightly more than 50 hrs a week for everything else. If woman maintain the bulk of the chores... we're being left with 18 hrs a week (or 2.5 hrs a day, including weekends) for downtime. Factor in the extra time we require for personal grooming... and is anyone surprised a married woman loses interest in sex? For the male, the lower chore hours leaves him with with a whopping 35hrs a week (5 hrs a day). Considering he uses a 10th of that time for personal grooming (seriously boys.. with all that extra time... why don't you take better care?).The female in the relationship is taking on 68 more hours of housework per month than the male is in exchange for about two sexual encounters. I doubt we're doing the extra chores just so we can get more sex. Am I the only one who sees the HUGE fallacy in this conclusion? They honestly think we women are more turned on by seeing our men doing nothing while we slave away? When chores are split down the middle.. each is left with about 27 hrs a week, or 3.5 hrs a day. More than enough time for both to enjoy a hobby and still have time to enjoy a good sex life. The whole thread and her reply. https://fetlife.com/groups/66793/group_posts/3471010
Really though, the bottom line guys is you are not taking care of business. As the article states, your wife is bored with your sexual efforts, drive, level of activity, skills and creativity. Of course that, for me at least, is all more reason for her to take charge and demand what she wants and needs. I did....as I've said before (semi-jokingly) I only became a FemDom for tongue. :)
My Website: http://www.fetishfurniturefactory.com
E-books of all my titles from Amazon:
http://www.amazon.com/Vanessa-Chaland/e/B008B9W8KC
http://www.fetishfurniturefactory.com
Links for my paperback books via CreateSpace (owned by Amazon).
Dominant Women: Where and How to Meet the FemDom of your Dreams https://www.createspace.com/4129264
Queening and Facesitting Chair Designs of FetishFurnitureFactory.com https://www.createspace.com/3763698
FemDom Training of Submissive Males
https://www.createspace.com/3729534
Squirter's Paradise: Female Ejaculation! Wet musings on owning your body's sensual gushing gifts!
https://www.createspace.com/3707392
Cuckold Letters: Evolution of a Cuckoldress
https://www.createspace.com/3592288
Cuckold Journal: Wet Options: Cuckold Letters II The Married Years https://www.createspace.com/3970589
Someone sent me a link to a site that has a variety of ballbusting videos. Its like grouped by "type"...meaning F/m, M/m, accidental, wrestling etc. I browsed though it a moment but I don't really watch porn so grow bored quickly, lol. I'd rather do, than watch others do.
Anyway, what I don't get is some of the....thrill (I guess?) from the accidental ballbusting. I mean I enjoy racking a guy in the nuts, (within reason of course) its fun for me, a power trip, slapping, lite kicking, a little knee action etc.
I guess my question is....is it the act or who's doing it and their motivation behind it that is the sexual excitement? I mean if a 300 pound old fat guy accidently hits your balls, is that the same type of thrill as if a FemDom does it? How could it be? Is it the pain itself or the mental aspect of knowing that the person wants to intentionally inflict a certain level of pain on your pathetic little nuts for the dominance and humiliation factor? I get if its within the realm of some sort of kinky sex/submissive/punishment theme, but if its the pain aspect only, does it still excite you if a rake or branch (or whatever) racks your balls?
My Website: http://www.fetishfurniturefactory.com
E-books of all my titles from Amazon:
http://www.amazon.com/Vanessa-Chaland/e/B008B9W8KC
http://www.fetishfurniturefactory.com
Links for my paperback books via CreateSpace (owned by Amazon).
Dominant Women: Where and How to Meet the FemDom of your Dreams https://www.createspace.com/4129264
Queening and Facesitting Chair Designs of FetishFurnitureFactory.com https://www.createspace.com/3763698
FemDom Training of Submissive Males
https://www.createspace.com/3729534
Squirter's Paradise: Female Ejaculation! Wet musings on owning your body's sensual gushing gifts!
https://www.createspace.com/3707392
Cuckold Letters: Evolution of a Cuckoldress
https://www.createspace.com/3592288
Cuckold Journal: Wet Options: Cuckold Letters II The Married Years https://www.createspace.com/3970589
First give your submissive cuckold husband blueballs by teasing him throughout the day. Then spend time spanking and slapping his cock, taunting him, mocking him, talking about your superior lovers and how they fuck you in a way he never has. When he is begging for release and mercy, use and abuse his mouth and tongue until your heart (ass and pussy) is content. Rinse. Lather. Repeat.:)
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I remember the evening I ran into Mark and his wife as if it were yesterday. Almost a decade has passed since, and it changed my perspective on the exclusivity of wedlock for years to come.
I was a few months into my career, and had been flying to Detroit for a consulting assignment every week. It was another Wednesday evening, and as was often the case, I had roamed into the hotel bar for a drink. It helped me unwind from a long day, and occasionally, I also found someone to share a few pleasant words with.
June can only be described as enchanting. She was at least twenty years older than me, and I wouldn't in a million years have known I'd spend the next few months as her lover. If you'd asked me then, I would have been shocked at the idea that there were men who wanted their significant others to experience sexual, and sometimes emotional fulfillment at the hands of another.
Our conversation began in an innocuous way. It was obvious that they were together, and that they had been married for years. I made a silly quip about sports, and recall having elicited a captivating smile. June was very engaging, and both of them seemed genuinely interested in learning about this exotic young man in their neck of the woods. They asked about what I did for a living, and how it was that a world of consulting opened up so early. I recall noticing that I found her attractive, and questioning whether she was in fact being flirtatious as we exchanged words, brushing the thought aside with a reminder that her husband sat right beside her. She was certainly very attractive, but exuded class instead of raw sexuality.
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I remember the evening I ran into Mark and his wife as if it were yesterday. Almost a decade has passed since, and it changed my perspective on the exclusivity of wedlock for years to come.
I was a few months into my career, and had been flying to Detroit for a consulting assignment every week. It was another Wednesday evening, and as was often the case, I had roamed into the hotel bar for a drink. It helped me unwind from a long day, and occasionally, I also found someone to share a few pleasant words with.
June can only be described as enchanting. She was at least twenty years older than me, and I wouldn't in a million years have known I'd spend the next few months as her lover. If you'd asked me then, I would have been shocked at the idea that there were men who wanted their significant others to experience sexual, and sometimes emotional fulfillment at the hands of another.
Our conversation began in an innocuous way. It was obvious that they were together, and that they had been married for years. I made a silly quip about sports, and recall having elicited a captivating smile. June was very engaging, and both of them seemed genuinely interested in learning about this exotic young man in their neck of the woods. They asked about what I did for a living, and how it was that a world of consulting opened up so early. I recall noticing that I found her attractive, and questioning whether she was in fact being flirtatious as we exchanged words, brushing the thought aside with a reminder that her husband sat right beside her. She was certainly very attractive, but exuded class instead of raw sexuality.
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I remember the evening I ran into Mark and his wife as if it were yesterday. Almost a decade has passed since, and it changed my perspective on the exclusivity of wedlock for years to come.
I was a few months into my career, and had been flying to Detroit for a consulting assignment every week. It was another Wednesday evening, and as was often the case, I had roamed into the hotel bar for a drink. It helped me unwind from a long day, and occasionally, I also found someone to share a few pleasant words with.
June can only be described as enchanting. She was at least twenty years older than me, and I wouldn't in a million years have known I'd spend the next few months as her lover. If you'd asked me then, I would have been shocked at the idea that there were men who wanted their significant others to experience sexual, and sometimes emotional fulfillment at the hands of another.
Our conversation began in an innocuous way. It was obvious that they were together, and that they had been married for years. I made a silly quip about sports, and recall having elicited a captivating smile. June was very engaging, and both of them seemed genuinely interested in learning about this exotic young man in their neck of the woods. They asked about what I did for a living, and how it was that a world of consulting opened up so early. I recall noticing that I found her attractive, and questioning whether she was in fact being flirtatious as we exchanged words, brushing the thought aside with a reminder that her husband sat right beside her. She was certainly very attractive, but exuded class instead of raw sexuality.
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This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. the black stud who likes to blog and video I am seeking mwf, mwc to interview for an online diary /blog/video documentary to be published online and in print I want to know why they choose this lifestyle how long and who wanted to do it first etc, do your friends family and church members know? what was your early years like? where do you live? city or suburbs where were you raised/ what religion are you? where did you go to school? is it a cuckold lifestyle or a swinger lifestyle? did you swing before marriage?i want to interview you! are you a bored housewife? lets chat I am mark la monte /Indianapolis ,in on facebook I want your phortos and video in clothes or with out!
This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. the black stud who likes to blog and video I am seeking mwf, mwc to interview for an online diary /blog/video documentary to be published online and in print I want to know why they choose this lifestyle how long and who wanted to do it first etc, do your friends family and church members know? what was your early years like? where do you live? city or suburbs where were you raised/ what religion are you? where did you go to school? is it a cuckold lifestyle or a swinger lifestyle? did you swing before marriage?i want to interview you! are you a bored housewife? lets chat I am mark la monte /Indianapolis ,in on facebook I want your phortos and video in clothes or with out!
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I just wanted to mention that I have changed my site a bit. To make a long story short, Visa charges $750 a year to adult webmasters.....in the USA only. Now MasterCard is jumping on the bandwagon and wants to do the same to the tune of $500 a year. I won't pay this. Their contention is that my type of site is "high risk" being adult related. I guess their thinking is that horny guys, dick in hand, lotion at the ready, drunk off their asses will join a plethora of adult sites late at night for an all night Wank-a-Thon. Then upon awaking the following morning, dick and balls deflated, hung over, no longer horny they will charge back to the account. I'm sure it happens, but obviously none of the fine upstanding men, "semi-men" wimps, cuckolds, sissies and subs that visit here would do that. I mean you guys don't even masturbate right, lol? Right "tiny"?
So, to become "low risk" in their eyes, I've removed all the adult content. No more nudity or porn, or sex related videos on my site at all. This enables me to have a "low risk" rating, which means Visa and MasterCard at no extra charge. I would point out that I have not had a chargeback in over three years or so. I have provided a couple of refunds for certain reasons, but having no chargebacks for years means I have a stellar reputation and my customers are happy with what is provided.
So, the point is that for those who have contacted me in the past taking issue with my not having Visa and that being their only way to join a site, I now have it.
I'll just keep loading the nude photos here. :)
...This is just a random variety of links and articles I found interesting. :)
Adult Revenue Is Up 13%, FOX Business Reports
Cuckolding in the News.
http://www.washingtoncitypaper.com/blogs/citydesk/2013/04/09/sidwell-friends-cuckolding-lawsuit-has-everything-sex-creepy-p-e-teachers-bob-woodward/
http://northfield.patch.com/articles/cuckolded-cop-found-guilty-of-assaulting-northfield-police-officer
When my wife and I had our first hotwife experience, she wasn’t my wife yet. In fact, we’d only been engaged about a month.
She was 23 and I was 25. We’d recently made friends with the owner of an S&M shop in Manhattan. He was an older guy; probably about 40 years old. He was ruggedly handsome with a chiseled face, well over six feet tall and strongly built, like a football player. He had sandy brown hair that was a bit wavy and cut short and blue eyes. We knew from previous conversations that he was active in the NYC kink scene as a dominant.
We used to go to the S&M shop to buy the kinky toys we loved to use on each other: leather cuffs, blindfolds, various gags, whips, paddles, floggers, canes, plugs, etc. Over time we got to chatting with the owner, Ted, and became rather friendly. Ted would ask us about toys we’d bought from him previously. We’d tell him what we’d done, what we enjoyed, what we fantasized about doing. What we never mentioned to Ted was anything about swinging or the like. As far as he knew, we were completely monogamous.
One evening we stopped by the S&M shop after hitting a couple of nearby bars. It was about 10pm on a Saturday and the shop would be closing soon. We weren't drunk, just feeling good. We wandered the isles, looking at outfit and talking about what she’d look sexy in. We finally picked out a sexy black lacy corset with matching garter belt and thong, and thigh-high stockings.
We chatted up Ted at the register. He looked at the outfit we were buying and let out a low whistle. ”Hot outfit,” he said to my fiancée. ”You’re a lucky man,” he said to me with a wink.
...Welcome to our new blog! Anyone who knows us knows that we used to have a lot of stories on the forums, but when the switch was made to the new HWL 2.0 system, all of our posts got linked to someone with the profile name "kocoro." This blog is simply a reclaiming of our experiences. Enjoy!
- D & L
Where are all the real men? Seriously.........I mentioned Rock Hard Cowboy Rick McCock in an earlier post. Anyhow, it's going nowhere and not for the reasons some might assume.
After a few back and forth texts and e-mails, I met him for coffee. Ok, my standard operating procedure for this is usually I run an ad, do the e-mail thing, vet the respondents, narrow it down to one or two, meet them individually for coffee and in about 90% of the cases, he's going to get to fuck me. Unless the guy lied about his looks, physical appearance or was unbelievably rude or stupid, his chance of "tapping my ass" was pretty much a given. So far there have only been a few that blew it in the final moments, which never fails to surprise me, but whatever.
This time since I met Rick first and already knew his physical attributes matched my criteria, all that needed to be discussed was the particulars of how I would want the evening to go. So we are discussing some of this and he's asking quite a few questions about what I do to my husband, how I dominate him, wanting various details etc which I am eventually finding a bit odd. Usually my lovers could not care less about anything regarding my cuckold husband other than the fact that they want to fuck his wife....meaning me. So then he's asking about cross dressing, do I make my husband do that, do I fuck him with a strap-on and questions of that nature. I'm starting at this point to get a tad suspicious. I'm starting to wonder if Cowboy Macho Mr. BigDick is as dominant and manly as I had initially assumed. So, I flipped the questions around in a way that he would not probably catch onto....meaning my agenda, asking what he thought about dominant women, the same sexual acts he had mentioned and so on. Eventually I just blurted out the question of whether or not he would want me to dominate him. Yes, he replied, rather emphatically and sort of blushed and like a large exhale of relief.
So, I politely told him I don't do that. And based upon his revelations that I was withdrawing my offer of allowing him to pound between my legs. So then he starts trying to backtrack and downplay some of what he just admitted to. He's saying he was only dominated by other women a couple of times, it was no big deal, he didn't even like it that much, it was only to satisfy them, blah, blah, blah.
...I'd love to lend her some of my advice. :)
E-books of all my titles from Amazon:
http://www.amazon.com/Vanessa-Chaland/e/B008B9W8KC
My Website: http://www.fetishfurniturefactory.com
Links for my paperback books via CreateSpace (owned by Amazon).
Dominant Women: Where and How to Meet the FemDom of your Dreams https://www.createspace.com/4129264
Queening and Facesitting Chair Designs of FetishFurnitureFactory.com https://www.createspace.com/3763698
FemDom Training of Submissive Males
https://www.createspace.com/3729534
Squirter's Paradise: Female Ejaculation! Wet musings on owning your body's sensual gushing gifts!
https://www.createspace.com/3707392
Cuckold Letters: Evolution of a Cuckoldress
https://www.createspace.com/3592288
Cuckold Journal: Wet Options: Cuckold Letters II The Married Years https://www.createspace.com/3970589
I went horseback riding earlier today (that's "horse" not "whores', (ha ha, insert rimshot here) and wow, wow, wow......great day in more ways than one, and that prompted these photos and a high level of horniness which made me have to come home, get out my Rabbit and masturbate and squirt all over the bed.
First off, if you look around you can pretty much find kink potential everywhere. I mean within the equestrian world you have riding crops, whips, saddles, bridles, leather, spurs, and of course the attire....tight jeans, jodhpurs, and so on. A side note regarding attire, outside of parts of Texas and Hollywood, many cowboys wear Levi's and Roper boots rather than Wranglers and needle pointed cowboy boots. I mean think rounded toe, utilitarian type, rather than $1700 Ostrich boots with hand stitching etc. Nor do they wear the pointed Mexican "pointy" boots (Google it) which are just ridiculous, lol.
Anyway, my main point here is that I was with several people and one of the guys that worked for the ranch is Mucho Manly McStudly and I want him. :) Think the Marlboro Cowboy guy and you're getting the idea. His name is Rick (rock hard Rick) and he's tall, lean, great smile, flirtatious, with a big bulge in his 527s.
So, this place is at the foothills of some local mountains starting at about 7000 feet. Mixed conifer, birds chirping, the smell of evergreen trees in the air, bright blue sky, beautiful day. Throughout the ride he kept near me, talking, flirting, right behind me probably watching my ass bounce in the saddle and wishing it was on his cock.....as I was wishing as well. :)
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